Now that you know how to do the 3Rs it’s time to use that exercise in creating a goal. You’ve seen all the good things that you have in your life now ask yourself, “How can I grow from this? What more can I do?” and write that down. Here’s the secret to creating an exciting and really worthy goal. Sit down at a desk or table, kick your spouse and kids out, turn off all distractions, the TV, the computer, the phone (Oh God turn off the phone!!!!!) and find silence to listen to. Be with yourself. A lot of people think that’s selfish but there is nothing better you can do for everyone else in your life but to take some time for you. Get into a really, really relaxed state and CUT YOUR IMAGINATION LOOSE! Let it fly. What can you imagine your life being? If you can imagine it, you can have it. WRITE IT DOWN. Whatever comes to your mind just make a shopping list of your wants. You don’t believe me, do you?
Right now, your Paradigm is screaming at you, “WhatEVER!!!!”, “WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?”, “You DON’T deserve that!!!!!”, “Stop being insane, that’s just a pipedream!”, and all kinds of other CRAP to stop you from making a shopping list of wants. You have a ton of limiting beliefs that will thwart all action to creating this list. Your Paradigm is killing your dreams. We are our worst enemies. Our Paradigm is something that has been cooking since we popped out into the world and we’ve carried it with us all this time. It’s a nest of our habits. A habit is an idea or a set of ideas fixed in the subconscious mind. In order to get rid of these limiting beliefs you first have to recognize that you have a Paradigm and then work with a coach or mentor to help you overcome them. But when you do, you won’t believe the life that you can have. The LottoMax win lifestyle is possible without buying a ticket.
What do you want? What will your life be like in 5 years? Write it out and put a date for its acquisition next to it. BAM! You have a goal. Now make a committed decision that you WILL make it happen. A dream with a date is a goal. Taking action on a plan to achieve it is making a dream come true.